Neil Steinberg recounts in his latest column (Baseball and the word that must not be said, February 7) a story of a famous baseball player who used to enjoy beating up a particular demographic of people with a blackjack. He happened to refer to these people by a particular word that has been banned from public discourse, unless, of course, you are of that particular demographic, and you can use it as much as you want.
It seems the people whose opinions count the most in our
society were more upset by his use of the forbidden word than in the fact he enjoyed
physically beating them. And then Steinberg
mentions the school teacher who we’re all sure had no animosity to this
particular demographic, but she lost her job anyway, because she mentioned the
aforementioned forbidden word in the course of teaching a class about
racism.
So what are we to make of all this?
I would like to offer my observations, and I welcome anyone who
has a different opinion to share it with me.
America is built on freedom, and that includes freedom of
speech and the press. No, that does not
mean the right to shout ‘fire’ in a crowded theatre, but the freedom to engage
in an exchange of ideas. Which also
means opinions. And opinions aren’t
required to be approved by a board of certified researchers who tested your
opinions for accuracy and impartiality.
That freedom also includes the right to pursue happiness.
In reflecting on this, I am reminded of the Ten
Commandments.
The Ten Commandments, as the Bible relates, were given to
the Israel nation by God as the means to govern society. Oh, there were other rules, but these gave
the broad outlines of what the other rules should entail.
And they are revealing.
Elsewhere in the Bible where God tells people how to live
life, He talks about the importance of loving your neighbor. He commands that, but these are not included in
the Ten Commandments.
The Ten Commandments makes no mention of our personal
feelings toward anyone else or of any responsibility requiring things that we
are to do for them.
It does command respect for our parents.
But as far as anyone else, it basically says to leave them
alone.
Don’t kill them, don’t try to ruin their marriage, don’t steal
from them, don’t make false accusations against them, and just leave what they
have alone. If you don’t do these
things, society will be fine.
So what does this have to do with forbidden words?
I submit that banning certain words helps nobody. Making people conscious of this word does
nothing to further the cause of mutual understanding or empathy. It doesn’t make anyone like anybody more or
dislike them any less.
Are we to assume that this is the only word that hurts
people? Here we are punishing people who
are not using the word to hurt people at all.
But I can think of dozens of words that actually do hurt people. But they don’t hurt people by their mere
presence. They hurt people, because they
express the contempt, disregard, hatred, envy, and anger we might have toward
that person or peoples. And that is far
worse, though the words themselves are not banned.
Banning words is like tearing down statues. It makes some people feel better for having
done something, but it does nothing to make anyone’s life better. And the fact that it is used to punish people
simply for the crime of uttering it is simply wrong.
Try harder to rid society of hatred, envy, and anger. Teach people to love their neighbors and to
be kind to them. That can be hard in a
secular society. It was a lot easier
when we allowed religion and God back into our public discourse.